Thursday, October 6, 2011

Women Roles in Relationships




--> What is a successful love relationship between a man and a woman?
              - there needs to be trust and good communication
                - be open and comfortable in yourself
 

Women and Men Roles
--> What are the roles of women in relationships?
          - "submissive" to the man but it must be reciprocated
          - balance the relationship out ( if I can't then he can)
          - this has changed over times which could be a good and bad thing
                      - The rise of extreme feminism
                      - Marriage is legal prostituion?
                      - A legal business transaction where services are exchanged

--> Is it okay for a man to wear the pants in the relationship?
          - No
          - Its a woman's role to let the man think he does but in reality we wear the pants in the relationship
          -
       
Would you work full time and let your male partner stay at home?
       - Hell naw... it challenges his masculinity

Steve Harvey
     - A male's perspective on the "issue"

JJ Smith
     - A female's perspective on the "issue"

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Geisha and Stripping/Prostitution



Geisha are female Japanese entertainers who play music, sing, act, dance, and even offer sexual services. In the Japanese culture when the geisha culture was at its rise, men were not constrained to being faithful to their wives and used geisha women to fulfill their sexual fantasies. However during this time, geisha women were also imprisoned for selling sex. In order to be a geisha woman there are training methods. However in today's time, geisha women are seen as prostitutes by non-Japanese, however in reality they do not take part in sexual acts. Instead they flirt and entertain their clients. Men are said to amused by the possibility of what could happen; their own illusions and fantasies with these women.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIdgqWPdsA0

Feelings? Thoughts?
Is this different from strippers? What about prostitution?
If so, how? why?

Players Club
strippers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fx3SrhmqOtQ
16 yr old stripper
Telling Mom

Comments:
How is this different from prostitution?
Aren't Geisha's respected in society?
Maiko girls are respected because they are virgins.

Do you think it is acceptable to compare Geisha women to prostitutes and strippers?

To strippers yes, prostitutes no.

Geisha means a "person of the arts"; Providing male entertainment

Geisha, the way they dress and held themselves are how they please a man although they are not taking anything off their motives are still to please a man.

Do Geisha's get paid?
Some do some don't.

Everything a Geisha does is very sexualized. How they put on their make up, and tie their robes all have meaning.
Why do most strippers strip?
for quick money.

It may not be moral for some but it's someone's choice to dance/strip or not.

Some people just enjoy to do it.

What's worse my daughter coming to me saying they she's pregnant or stripping?

I wouldn't tell my parents that I was stripping. That's the worse thing to deal with.

"Prostitution is not the world's oldest profession it's the world's oldest oppression"

You can't compare prostitution to stripping it's not the same context.

Our Generation Making Moves

Raven-SymonĂ© Christina Pearman was born on December 10, 1985. She began her career as an actress at the the young age of three but before that she was doing commericals for products such as Riutz Crackers, Jello, and Cool Whip. Soon after her premiere on television she was casted as Olivia, Cosby's granddaugher, in The Cosby Show. When the show ended, Raven  began her career in the singing industry. At five years old she was taking voice lessons from the very talented Missy Eliott and dropped her first ablum titled, Here's To New Dreams. Although her single reached #68 on The Billboard, the overall album was not successful Hwoever that did not stop Raven; that following year she landed a role as Nicole in Hangin' With Mr. Cooper. From there she continued to grace the movie and televison screen in The Little Rascals, Dr Dolittle, Dr. Dolittle 2, and her self-titled show and star of That's So Raven. While on that show she starred in movies such as the Cheetah Girls and Cheetah Girls 2. Even when her series ended, raven kept busy with her music, clothing line, and her acting career. She is still acting and lending her voice out for features such as Tinkerbell and is said to be working on a nwe series titled The Great State of Georgia. For more information, click here.

Selena Gomez (July 22, 1992) was first introduced to us in 2002 in Barney & Friends and in 2003 in her minor role in Spy Kids 3-D, But it wasnt until her role in Another Cinderella Story  where we realized that she was a force to be reckoned with. She continued on in the Disney Channel movie The Princess Protection.  The following year she began her role as Alex Russo in Disney;s sitcom Wizards of Waverly Place. She also had roles on Hannah Montana and The Suite Life of Zack and Cody.  She currently has an ablum with The Scene titled Kiss and Tell. Her songs are heard on the radio, on the Disney Channel, and in her films. Gomez is also the UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador. SHe continues to run organization and take part in movements to help those less fortunate. Here's More

Keke Palmer (Born on August 26, 1993) entered the scene in her role as Akeelah  in Akeelah in the Bee. This film was not only a way for everyone to see her talent as in actress but also to bare witness to her talents as a singer. Her single "All My Girlz" was featured on the film. In 2006, she played the role f Mary in a Disney Channel Movie Jump In and had her vocals on the soundtrack. Two years later, Palmer was given the leading role in her Nickeldeon show True Jackson were she plays a young fashion designer. Even with her busy schedule she still makes sure to act her age and be a postive role model for young boys and girls. Her roles on television and her songs very much reflect the generation of the youth today. She has also started a clothing line at WalMart which includes dresses, jumpers, and other fun items. For more information

Born on October 31, 2000 Williow Smith has taken the world by storm. At only the young age of 10 she has released two singles, Whip My Hair and 21st Century Girl. These songs find themselves playing in little girl rooms, on road trips and even in the clubs. Prior to that she received a Young Artist Award for her role in Kit Kittredge and she has also played a role in the amazing movie, I Am Legend, alongside her father, Will Smith. This young girl has so much potential and the industry seems to be excited. She is the works of dropping her first album and starring in the remake of the comic strip Little Orphan Annie. More...

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Thursday, March 17, 2011

Tisha Campbell-Martin and Tichina Arnold

Tisha Campbell-Martin started her career at the age of 6. She was very active throughout her childhood and attended many talent shows. She won many awards for singing as well as acting. In 1992 she was casted as Gina, girlfriend to MArtin Lawrence in Marin. A year after the sitcom's debut, Campbell-Martin relaesed a self titled album, which sold 40,000 copies. In 1996 she married her husband of almost 15 years Duane Martin, they have two sons together. Another amazing start and Tisha's life was her role as Jay in My Wife and Kids.  She portrayed a strong mother and loving wife who also wanted to make her dreas come true. She was light-hearted and energictic in her roles and continues to do guest appreancas in shows such as Rita Rocks and Everybody Hates Chris.


Tichina Arnold is another respected actress born on June 28, 1970. She is the best friend of Tisha Campbell-Martin. She began her career at the tender age of 8, with her first role in the play The Me Nobody Knows at the Billie Holiday theatre. In 1987, she was cated in her first fulltime role in a soap opera titled Ryan's Hope. She is well-known for her role as Pamela James on Martin. She also played the mother of Kyla Pratt on the sitcom One on One.  Her career includes roles on Evrybody HAtes Chris, Big Momma's House, The Cosby Show, and The Boondocks. She has also producted a line of hair accessories that have been modeled and purchased by many celebrities such as JAnet Jackson, Christina Aguliera, Tisha Campbell-Matin and Regina king, to name a few. However she stopped producting her line when she had her daughter in March of 2004.

Regina King was born January 15, 1971. She is currently datin Malcolm Jamal Walker but has a on from her previous marriage which ended in 2006 due to drug abuse, physical abuse, and extramatrial affairs. She is best known for her role in sitcoms such as Jerry Maguire, 227, Boys N Da Hood, Poetic Justice, Higher Learning, Daddy Day Care. The list goes on and on. She is currently featured in the series Southland. She is seen as the a woman who embodies female empowerment by both the way she carries herself off and on the scene.

Comments:

Body Image affects everyone across the board no matter your gender, race or personality.
These images are some examples of people that have a desired body. Very sexualized pictures.
Very little statistics on minority cultures that state eating disorders and problems with body image.

Eating disorders are typically "American" disorders. People in China and elsewhere refused to eat for different reasons such as punishment for bad grades, and incompetence which doesn't directly have anything to do with body image and eating disorders.

We eat foods that we know are not necessarily healthy for us but it helps us look a certain way.

Are we satisfied with our bodies?
It depends on the culture. I feel like minorities are more satisfied and people in the white culture are not because they see one perfect ideal beauty. Beauty varies in different cultures. Black men tend to focus on a Woman's large buttox, others go for length of hair, and others for the color of the eyes. Black culture, accepts and embraces the body much more.

Some cultures go the extra mile through plastic surgery to change the way their body looks.

What is the ideal body for women of color?
African American and Hispanic is just CURVES.
Asian communities, Small, slender and dainty.
A lot of Asian women have issues with Lucy Lieu's photos because they feel that she's showing too much.

A lot of people are willing to give up years of their life, to have surgery.
Diet pill commercials. Why is it you have to look like this? Why can't it be work out to be healthier.
Overcoming insecurities to start losing weight.

Everything has their own definition of beauty.

You have to be comfortable with who you are.
Not everybody looks right skinny.

Why is there a misconception that these women are beautiful?
I don't feel like we promote dieting and being skinny, this isn't all of the media's fault but they portray what is beauty.

People have different genetics. People have to learn how to eat right, exercise regularly if your still not the ideal weight you're still okay.

Sometimes women who are big have so much anger towards women who are small. For some people there isn't anything they can do. Don't attack them for it.

Which criticism is more harsh to be fat or to be skinny.
What is fat? I consider fat 400 lbs. Fat means obese. The definition is different.

People are underweight, she needs help and we feel pitiful and those who are over weight there is so much anger. Some people really need help and can't control their eating.

Eating is a drug.

You shouldn't have to change the way you look to please your man.

How does the white culture see us?
I think they think we're fat.
Some white people want curves, but the majority doesn't.

Body Image

Body Image is something that effects both men and women of all of races, sizes, religions, and socioeconomic class.



There has been a multitude of research done that suggest there are no eating disorders or dissatisfaction with one's body in the African-American/Black and Latino/a culture.

Is this true? Are we satisfied with our bodies? Or are we just more satisfied then white women and men? Why are we more protected?

What is the ideal body type for a woman who is of color?

Stats






http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SlbFrtkTKFs
Cocoa Brown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mOQh3evqsI
 Tyra Banks
http://www.spike.com/video-clips/iw38y9/phat-girlz-i-was-talking-about-your-beautiful-plump-friend
Phat Girlz

How does this effect younger girls?
Can we solely blame the media?
What about how other cultures perceive us?
Did you know that in some cultures beauty is defined by fattening girls by the time they lose their teeth?
Are these women any less beautiful?

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Oprah Winfrey and Tyra Banks

Oprah Winfrey was born on January 29, 1954 in Kosciusko, Mississippi.  She has done countless things. She is an actress, talk show host, and entrepreneur. Her talents and compassion seem to be endless. She began her career in 1986 after receiving a Golden Globe and Academy Award for her supporting role in The Color Purple. She has won over nine awards for the Oprah Winfrey Show and has added to her list of achievements co-founding the Oxygen Media and has started her own magazine O. Oprah is also well-known for supporting causes she has her own charities such as Oprah's Angel Network and she has also opened up the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls in South Africa. "She has been ranked the richest African American of the 20th century, the greatest black philanthropist in American history, and was once the world's only black billionaire. She is also, according to some assessments, the most influential woman in the world." The list goes on and on. To find out more click here

1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr9SAEuejU8
2.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKbRMcmAfVg&feature=related

Tyra Banks is a model, talk show host, businesswoman, and actress, born December 4, 1973 in Inglewood, California. She started her career as a model at the age of 18. After spending years making herself a household name, Banks started appearing in films such as Higher Learning, Love & Basketball, and Life-Size.  She has won the Daytime Emmy Award for her daytime talk show The Tyra Banks Show. Banks was the first African American woman on magazine covers such as Sports Illustrated. For more information on Tyra

1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_OWopqRCLsw&feature=related
2. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29SuuEKztPc&feature=related

Cristina Saralegui was born in Havana, Cuba on January 29, 1948. When she was twelve her family escaped from Cuba and moved to Miami. In 1979 Saralegui worked for three of the most successfully published magazines in Latin Amreica. Saralegui is now referred to as the Spanish Oprah; she spent over 21 years bringing news, gossip, and comfort to many homes in and out of America. She was the talk show host and executive producer of her own show El Show de Cristina on Univision. She had guest appearances and support from people that range from Jorge Ramon, Selena, Shakira, Gloria Estefan and Jennifer Lopez. She has even made some guest appearances on television shows such as the The George Lopez Show. Please click here to learn more


1.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FdMG9u3Klx8&feature=related
2.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wMnZGQbIh4

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Perspectives on Meagan Good

Quick Bio

Ms. Good has appeared on many different television series, movies, and talk shows. Starting at the age of 4 and continued on from there doing small guest appearances. She then moved on to bigger roles including her first film in 1995, Friday. Years after getting her career on the road, she transitioned from amateur roles to a mature role. But in what ways are her more mature roles depicting her? Or even in a larger sense, how does it depict us as black women? How has the characters Meagan Good portrayed in the last couple years, affected the way other people view African American women?

Different Roles Meagan Good has played


 Waist Deep ---CoCo

Stomp the Yard--April


Appearances in Music Videos


50 Cent-- 21 Questions


Tyrese--One

Comments:
She a Hoe! Meagan Good is always in a typical girlfriend/sexual role.

She could play any role but she always gets casted in the same roles.
Waist Deep, Stomp the Yard, The Game. She's always that distinctive role.

Is it a bigger issue, is it Blacks in the mainstream.

When it comes to being a celebrity you get one role and you can choose to stick with that role. In Novela's you always have the same person who has the same characteristics. When people call you to be in the role its based on the past roles that you've been casted.

She is a great woman, she's gorgeous and she has a potential to be something greater than whats portrayed of her on tv.

I liked her innocence on cousin Skeeter.

Meagan Good is not the only sex symbol there are a number of women who have been casted in the same roles like Angelina Jolie, Meagan Fox, Halle Berry...but they have a variety.

Meagan Good has aspirations to be casted as Aaliyah maybe that will show a different side of her.

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Aftermath of "For Colored Girls"

~~Women of Color With the Mays Men~~

Initial Responses to the Film
        - This film bashes men
        - The movie was good in terms of the cast and acting, however the plot and story line had so much potential to be better. the primary goal was not to bash men but i felt like the characters were very one-dimensional. Maybe it would have been help to have flash backs. black are monsters and in humane. there was no purpose of seeing the film, it didn't preserve black relationships.
        - But wasn't this film titled "for colored girls", it shouldn't always have to be about men
        - Every black man i see is either going to rape me, beat me or is useless and black women are all pitiful, whether they started as such it doesn't matter they will all end up this way. This is what i got from the film. The film is very cliche. they sat down and made a list of all the bad things that could happen, all the stereotypes and divided amongst the characters. "cry me a river".
        - The film was not original
        - What was the message of the movie?
        - Tyler Perry didn't write the movie, his job was to bring life to the play and the book. In terms of that because that was his job he did it well. What is the job of the director
        - Misery loves company.
        - I feel as if this movie was meant to bring light to what is going in the real life. It isn't meant for everyone to watch, if people feel like this. Crap like this really happen.
        - He should have left it as a book or play because he should of know that it was going to be controversial especially when Oprah his biggest support back out.
        - Doesn't change only come when people become uncomfortable?
        - The abortion scene- we can go to the clinics... but what about the fact that she didn't have the money to pay for an abortion.
        - Why couldn't anyone catch the kids?
        - It was stretched to the unimaginable
        - Religion was also portrayed poorly for black people. white people already think we have a crazy religion.
        - These characters are suppose to be dynamic but they are very static.
        - They need to explain how this happens.. how did they get there?
        - The rapist you knew he was a rapist because he was too nice of a guy... is that Perry's fault or our fault that we were looking for flaws in him. Predictions were made in the first 5 minutes, how could you know anything?
        - I didn't know how to feel, yeah that was deep but where do i go from here.
        - Many people who saw this movie aren't doing what we are doing now; nobody's talking!
Why is all the blame being but on Perry because their were other black people who played a major role in the film? He kept the story the way in which Shange, the author of the book, wanted it with an addition of two characters such as Whoopi Goldberg and Tessa Thompson. Every one is asking for Tyler Perry's reasoning but why not ask the men who played these roles or the women who took part in this project.
        - It was all exploitation but it should have remained a play or modernized it
        - People rarely see plays though and nobody would have been able to hear the stories of women who are or have gone through it.
        - I don't think his sole purpose was to make money because it didn't make that much money regardless.
        - I just don't care
        - People are focusing so much on the men, this wasn't for them!
        - it should have been more flushed out
        - This movie was based on real life even though there were some fictional parts but the things that happened to the women in the movie actually happen to people in real life
        - You can't write a movie that says all of this happens without addressing what will come after a nationwide audience watches this movie. Example is how will other view black women from this movie?
        - There wasn't any positive influences for any of the women in the movie
        - Each male character had some level of humanity in it

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Meeting #11

Skin Bleaching

We watched the Tyra Banks' Episode of Black Women Bleaching their skin where there were 6 different women that described their reasoning for bleaching their skin. Most of the women have been bleaching their skin for multiple years.

Comments:
- 3 out of the 6 women were bleaching because of men and stated that they've experienced men wanting lighter skin women so they'd like to lighten there skin
- These women have low self esteem and it has nothing to do with how society views them
- Some of the women talked about the attention they got from now being lighter but back in school
when they were younger they didn't get the same attention as the light skin girls, but was it all about your shade of skin. Was the women heavy weight, was it the way the dark skinned girls were portrayed maybe as skanky or not skanky enough?
- Black No More by George S. Schuyler was a book that reminded someone of this topic
- The fact that we have so many different ways to change ourselves (surgeries, creams) that people don't have to love themselves anymore


Then we watched a part of a documentary A Girl Like Me
In the documentary it showed a study that they also used during the Brown vs. Education case in which they had black kids choose between a white baby doll and a black baby doll, stating which one is better. 19 out of the 21 kids choose the white doll.


- Some of us were only allowed to play with black dolls when they were younger
- Back in the day there weren't too many black dolls
- Someone was excited when the middle complexion doll, Teresa came out
- There was even a little boy in the video that preferred a white doll 
- It's a start
- Kids should be taught that both black dolls and white dolls are beautiful and good so that they can still play with both
- These parents as well may not have been educated like we're being educated now about these things so that when we have our kids we'll teach them but the kids in these video may not have that

Monday, January 24, 2011

Meeting #10

Act like a lady but think like a man


"Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand. If you are her man, she will talk to you until there just aren’t any more words left to say, encourage you when you’re at rock bottom and think there just isn’t any way out, hold you in her arms when you’re sick, and laugh with you when you’re up. And if you’re her man and that woman loves you—I mean really loves you?—she will shine you up when you’re dusty, encourage you when you’re down, defend you even when she’s not so sure you were right, and hang on your every word, even when you’re not saying anything worth listening to. And no matter what you do, no matter how many times her friends say you’re no good, no matter how many times you slam the door on the relationship, she will give you her very best and then some, and keep right on trying to win over your heart, even when you act like everything she’s done to convince you she’s The One just isn’t good enough.
That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance.
...
Well, I’m here to tell you that expecting that kind of love— that perfection—from a man is unrealistic. That’s right, I said it—it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how. Because a man’s
love isn’t like a woman’s love."


"Women can go over it again and again in their minds, finding all kinds of deficiencies in themselves-"I didn't do this right," "I wasn't good enough," "I didn't love him the way I should," "she came in here and outperformed me"-but the fact still remeinas that he didn't have any business cheating. So women need to realease themselves from the blame of a cheating man's actions-just do that for yourselves. Because holding on to that baggage can be paralyzing; it can cripple you and keep you from performing in your next encounter. You simply cannot drive forward if you're focused on what's happening in the rearview mirror."— Steve Harvey


Comments:

- Men are dumb, they just fuck up, its part of their biology

- Men don't put their emotion on the forefront

- Why do women go above and beyond, but men say they give they all but they're men?

- I was mad and empowered at the same time. Women may address the men after they have cheated and acknowledge that they had no business cheating however, we sometimes go back and think what did we do wrong? what can i do better? what did she have that I dont? But we cant do that because looking back to the previous text we have the ability to do sooo much and a man cant. I have all these qualities and any man would be lucky to receive it so me sitting around wondering what I could of done might be a waste of time.



Clip of Tyra Banks Show "Excuses for Men"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUVBgBThRcg


Comments

- The excuse of "I'm a man" is tired and old

- If we are in a relationship we should strive to understand each other and be on the same page with one another

- I have expectations for myself but for guys I dont: "Just surprise me"

- Im afraid to get married, we have visualized our weddings but a marriage is something entirely different

Meeting #9

Keri Hilson's The Way you love me vs. Raheem's Devaughn's She's Single

Keri Hilson
The Way You Love Me


 Raheem Devaughn
She's Single

After viewing both of these videos you could wonder how people reacted to them. With Keri Hilson's video where she is acting out of character and has written this explicit song even though she admits to knowing her audience are girls, yet she also stated in the same interview that this song isn't for girls. We're not too sure where Keri is going with this one. Then we get to Raheem Devaughn's video which alot of people had no problem with. Raheem Devaughn's reasoning behind the video was to show that women are on the same level as men now, and just as men have been going out and cheating for some time now, women can do the same thing.

Comments made:
- I used to view Keri Hilson as someone who never went to that level and I was proud of her for that but now she's right along with all the rest of the artists that put their bodies' out there.
- Why would Keri ever do something like this if she knows who her audience is and clearly they're going to buy this album that includes the song even if a couple of the words are changed, the idea behind it is still the same.
- Its crazy that Keri Hilson can put something like this out and get so much heat about it yet when Raheem Devaughn puts out a porno, he gets a slap on the back for it
- The whole issue on the double standard

Meeting #8

For Colored Girls Recap

We spoke about the colors that each girls represents and wears that color throughout the movie.
Picture of the girls

We also spoke about how Tyler Perry represented the men and women in the story. Some people felt that Perry represented a lot of different type of men and women, while some others thought that he still was only representing the stereotypical African American men and women.

We all did agree that the actresses in this movie did a magnificent job playing the roles that they did and that they fully did commit to their roles. He couldn't have picked a better cast.

We talked about how things played into each other such as when the women is washing her children's blood off the sidewalk as the girl who had just had an abortion runs through.

As well as how all these women connect in a crazy way through this one building.

Add your own thoughts to the movie.

Meeting #7

Who is a Women of Color? Thoughts on Biracial Women that hate one of their races

Part 1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5vrrkdaDCR0&feature=related

Part 2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gm7jVfA4ypU&feature=related

Comments:
- Every women is a women of color
- The story that stood out the must was the girl who identified as white but appeared as a women of color yet degraded the whole race. She runs around with a confederate flag at an event but she ignores the story behind that flag and the race that was burned because of that flag. She also had a picture where she was making fun of the KKK and viewed it as a joke when that was something serious. She pretty much ignored a history of African Americans that have worked through these struggles to be where they are today.
- The only girl that seemed that she had a somewhat logical explanation was the girl that expressed she only identified with one side because she didn't know her other side of the family

Meeting #6

Difference between Latinas and Hispanics, & how they're represented in the media

Meeting #5

Undercover Brothers/ Homosexual Males

Meeting #4

Mama's Boys

Part 1:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PsBH30b41es

Part 2:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWlj31yu6Vs&feature=related

Comments:
- No man should be that attached to his mother
- The mother is crossing the line with her relationship with the son. Mothers are supposed to nuture and teach their sons, then let them go and live their own lives.
- Its wrong that the boy is so attached to his  mother that when his sick he sleeps in his mother's bed
- The mother is very disrespectful to the boy's wife because she can't provide to him in the way that the mother does because she isn't her
- The man says he wants to be different than his father because his father wasn't in her life but in a way is doing the same thing by running off to his mother instead of taking care of his wife and child

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Meeting #3

Why successful Black women can't find a man

http://straightfromthea.com/2010/04/22/why-cant-successful-black-women-find-a-man-video/

We looked at the link above and watched the two clips on the page that describe the view of Hill Harper, Jacque Reid, Sherri Shepherd, and Jimi Izrael.  

Comments:

Meeting #2

Comparing Nicki Minaj, Trina, & Lil Kim


We started the conversation with people just commenting on these people and photos.

Some of the comments were:
-Trina hasn't changed one bit and is still talking about the same things that she was talking about when she first came out (money, men, and sex)
-Nicki Minaj talks about she doesn't want to portray sex in the same manner as female artists before her yet she still has provocative music and pictures that says the opposite
-Lil Kim has been talking about sex when she came out and she's real

Then there was a question posed of how do these women allow students on campus to make a perception of us. Some of the comments were:
-Students on campus view us in the same way that they view these artists
-When students see black women on campus they think they can dance just as women in the media do
-From the music they hear (example: my neck, my back) white men think they don't have to do much to get in the pants of a black women